aneinandergeraten

Wir sind in den letzten Jahren nicht aneinandergeraten, doch wir hatten Gelegenheit, viele Probleme zu lösen.

We have not clashed over the last few years but have had opportunities to try and solve a lot of problems.

ich war nicht aneinandergeraten

I was not coming together

wir waren aneinandergeraten

we had come together